बुद्ध नेपालमा जन्मिएका हैनन् #Reality

Buddha

मेरी आमा भन्ने गर्नुहुन्थ्यो – “बेटु! यदि हरकोहीले कुनै रुखलाई सिधा छ भनी भनिरहेका छन् भने तँ नि आफ्नो बुद्धि, विवेकको प्रयोग नगरी सिधा होस् या बाङ्गो सिधै भन् है त”। माँको उक्त कुरा केही हदसम्म त अपनाइयो पनि – किनकि सुन्नेलाई त्यही सुनाउनुपर्ने रहेछ जुन उसले सुन्न चाहन्छ र न मात्र भलो हुनेरहेछ नत्र रातो हलुवावेदलाई आगो हो भनी विश्वस्त भैं चिसोमा तातो हुन खोजिरहेका बाँदरको झुण्डलाई भँगेरीले त्यो हलुवावेद आगो हैन फल हो भन्दा उल्टै प्राणत्याग गर्नुपरेको कथाले मष्तिस्कमा दस्तक दिन आइपुग्ने रहेछ।   [ Mom ले यसअघि SEX शिक्षा मा Guide गर्नुभएको थियो ]

तर Buddha was born in Nepal को मुद्दामा भने म मामुको युक्तिमा हिड्न सकिरहेको छैन।मन मनमनै गौरवान्तित महसुस गर्छ – बुद्ध नेपाली भूमिमा जन्मिएका थिए – मेरो देशको शान 🙂 तर यथार्थको धरातलमा उभिई सोच्दा मन फेरी खिन्न हुनपुग्छ – खोक्रो राष्ट्रियता अनि भ्रमको आडम्बर कहिलेसम्म ? 😦

बुद्धको जन्मस्थल नेपाल भन्ने कथनसँग म बिश्वस्त हुन नसकेको मैले यी प्रश्नहरु आफैलाई सोधी हेर्दा नपाएपछि हो।

हात मिलाउने अवसर

” यो संवाददाता अली अनौठो लाग्छ मलाई ” म फर्के लगत्तै ति युवती छेउकै साथीलाई भन्दै थिइन ।
एउटै प्रश्न बिभिन्न ब्यक्ति-बिशेषलाई सोधी तिनीहरुको विचारलाई केलाउन सार्‍हो मजा लाग्छ मलाई, मजा पनि किन नलागोस् फरक फरक कोणबाट हेर्दै दिइएका उत्तरहरु गन्दै जाँदा उत्तरका परिभाषा अनगिन्ती बनिदिन्छन्, जबकी प्रश्न हुन्छ मात्र एक ।

” हात मिलाउने अवसर पाउँदा को सँग मिलाउन चाहनुहुन्छ तपाईं ” यो चोटिको प्रश्न म आँफैलाई कता कता अनौठो लागिरहेको थियो ।

” एक यस्तो साथी जसको स्पर्शमात्रले म मा एक कम्पन ल्याओस् ” ति युवती, आंकाक्षालाई थाहा थियो शायद, म यस्तै भिन्न उत्तरलाई प्राथमिकता दिन्छु भन्ने र त नि उनका उत्तर यहाँ छन् ।

” धेरै भयो हात मिलाउने काम, भष्ट्राचार, विऋती,विसंगति,कुरीती को को सँग हात मिलाउने काम भएका छैनन् र ? अब बेला आएको छ हात धुने न कि हात मिलाउने ” एक २५ बर्षे युवा, आश्रयले यसरी उत्तर दिइरहदा म सोचिरहेको थिए, हैन! हरेक ब्यक्तिको अन्तरकुनामा एक बिमल निभा सुतिरहेको हुन्छ कि क्या हो ? घुमाउरो तर सोचनयोग्य उत्तर ठाउँमा दिने अनी सुतिहाल्ने फेरी । कती गजब हुँदो हो त्यो बिमल निभा सधैंभरी उठिरहदो हो त ?

” पहिले मेरो प्रश्नको उत्तर दिनु हुन्छ कि ? ” बानी लगायो भने अब संवाददाताले हरेक उत्तरदाताका प्रश्नमा अल्झिनुपर्ने हुन्थो तर अँह भन्न पनि त सकिएन ।

“भन्नुस्”
” एउटा आँखाले संसार देखिन्छ भन्दैमा अर्को आँखा फोड्ने कार्यलाई के भन्नुहुन्छ ?”

It’s ur duty to burn off too

It’s your duty to burn off too..  

Ya, it’s your life and you are absolutely free to live as you want to. Whatever you do, it’s up to you but the moral of the life says that the effects from your life shouldn’t affect the life of others. You drink, ok, but you can’t make a noisy environment after drinking.

After the regular duty of office, while returning my mobile got a chance to snap a precious scene, street kids smoking. Here, smoking wasn’t a curiosity rather from where do they get cigarettes was my curious part. My enthusiasm got chilled when I came to know that it’s the thrown cigarettes that they use to pick up. In the conversation with them I also realized that to be a poor and orphan means what in actual. Not only that, the real footage of so called NGO got also cleared in mind.

Each one has life and free to live as he desires but this right should be obeyed in right manner. Unknowingly, the cigarette that you are throwing in burned stage is being used by others and it’s the kids who are using them.

An eye with emotion

Eye is that portion of body without saying anything it says a lot. It unknowingly demonstrate the feeling of someone hiding in one’s heart. While doing sex, everyone has the experience of closing of the eye. Closed eye means indication of getting emotion through the relation. Hence the above give a glance that eye is a scenario to find out the inner of someone.

His eyes used to be silent and attractive, attractive in the sense of having tendency to make curious about he. He, 20 yrs old, became emotionally blinded and got fall in love with 40 yrs old woman having her 2 daughters. Nowadays, after this event, I in my imagination only seeing waves and tides of emotions in his silent and peaceful eyes.

What made him to take such decision? He, a student, dependent on family took such decision which is totally wrong for a guy like he. To do marry at that young age is itself wrong. Here, he not only did but to a woman having her own family and highly aged.

It’s the emotion that bound him to walk in that way where he will found no any way. Emotion wrapped his eyes and in blindness he choosed such a wrong and unsuitable path.

A simple analysis of my own, shows that whenever a woman do suicide, it’s event that made her to do that while in man case, it’s the emotion that excites him to take such action.

The writer’s own analysis forced him to write that emotion doesn’t have power to easily disrupt male mind but if it got a chance, then it disrupts more that any else. Female by crying and doing whatever (which suits them) controls the emotion but in male case, it overlaps all surrounding and makes a dark environment to him. Consequently, in blindness he uses to choose a wrong path like my actor (real) took in above.

Moral: Each one has feeling and emotion. Emotion regarding male I found more dangerous than female. Male are too poor to handle if it got a chance to capture one’s mind in comparison to female because god has given a special power to play with emotion in nice manner to lady while male, I think aren’t so lucky.

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Each Son should do Sex Education talk with his Mom

Why with mom ? Because she is female and can tell you in excellency about your sex partner’s(lady) feeling. Research had also showed that son feel comfort with their mother to talk, means the inclination of them is more toward mother. This inclination starts with the childhood as childish mind feels nice to put a lot of questions in front of his mother and even in adult it feel ease to ask some puzzle.

‘Momma, why do white cover is used in wedding bed?’ The habit of asking each question since childhood suddenly ask the above question just to know the answer.

‘It is a tradition to check whether the bride is virgin or not. If she is virgin, then the mark of blood will be seen clearly in white, so.’

The question was escaped from my mouth in random way, pretending an interest to know something, but when i got answer, I felt shy in front of my mother.

Seeing my uncomfortable, she further added

Someone is saying smthing. Are we able to hear that ?

Economics says that there are three kinds of money trafficing-Investment, Expenditure and Wastage. The transformation of money from one hand to another occupies either of these three verbs:- invest, spend or waste.

To do invest means just to think profit mainly. Money attracts money rule is used here to get collection.

To do spend means just exchange of goods or something with money. Buy and sell or give and take rule is used here.

To waste means just to throw of money.

Even in the crowd one is alone

We use to be covered by faces by anytime, anywhere and in any condition. Faces of friends, relatives, known as well as unknowns etc. do not let us to feel alone. But indeed, each and every time one is always alone, even in the crowd one is alone. Reality Bites. Friends, relatives all these walk with us while loneliness is within us.

Whenever a person feel something good, he first leaves soft smile, do even a little bit but do conversation with himself. Like saying ‘yea’, ‘I got it’ etc. he first express his feeling to himself. This symbolizes that unknowingly he is making loneliness as his friend because there is no one to walk with him in his whole life. He has to hold his own hand, no one from the crowd is there to do that.

Men in alone condition can watch things more properly and more differently as they get enough time to think and see things in different manner.