Why with mom ? Because she is female and can tell you in excellency about your sex partner’s(lady) feeling. Research had also showed that son feel comfort with their mother to talk, means the inclination of them is more toward mother. This inclination starts with the childhood as childish mind feels nice to put a lot of questions in front of his mother and even in adult it feel ease to ask some puzzle.
‘Momma, why do white cover is used in wedding bed?’ The habit of asking each question since childhood suddenly ask the above question just to know the answer.
‘It is a tradition to check whether the bride is virgin or not. If she is virgin, then the mark of blood will be seen clearly in white, so.’
The question was escaped from my mouth in random way, pretending an interest to know something, but when i got answer, I felt shy in front of my mother.
Seeing my uncomfortable, she further added
‘ The tight female reproductive organ(means spectrum) got teared in sex and as a result blood come out and that spot in bed indicate that bride is pour.’
‘What if blood not come out ?’ with my eye down on the floor I asked accumulating some courage.
‘It’s a tradition, Betu(बेटु). Today’s girl do cycling, take part in sports etc. and such activity already tear the spectrum before sex. So in first sex, it is not necessarily blood must be come out. ‘
That was my first sex conversation with my mom. This type of regular conversation with parents will track each person’s sex life in a good way. Such education will help one’s sex life to move in a proper way.
It would be a lie if I said that guys do not talk about sex, rather sex would be the greatest topic. In the name of reading ‘Horoscope’ ladies used to read Rajendra Bhadra’s ‘Sex Confusion’ in Kantipur Saptahik, indicates that they also need proper guidance but they do not feel comfort as we feel to talk with friends. (may be they feel comfort, I don’t have proper idea of it.)
Sex education is right of us and it is in issue to educate student from school level. TV, Internet, DVD, magazines, friend talk etc. are some sources to get knowledge about sex and such knowledge may not always good, Due to undisciplined and unsystematic show of porn program in media, maximum are getting the wrong concept(lust) in the name of getting sex education.
The picture above shows that in what way media’s unsystematic show disrupting our soceity.Media provides sex entertainment while to get sex education human(like elders, parents) are best.
A better sex education can only be gotten from his/her family, parents instead of media.
‘Momma, what does symbolizes that a girl is in pregnancy ?’
‘Her monthly circulation(period) will be stopped.’
Now without any shy, that was my second conversation.
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